What Is Homeschooling?

Homeschooling is becoming increasingly common but is it a good choice for your family? Here’s what you need to know.

a mom homeschooling child

Do you know anyone who homeschools? The odds are that you do.

While homeschooling used to be pretty rare; in the past decade it’s become more mainstream with about 2.5 million kids in the US being homeschooled today. And that number is on the rise.

In this article, I’ll go over:

  • US homeschooling statistics
  • Deciding if homeschooling is right for your family
  • Homeschool curriculum options
  • My top 10 educational toys for homeschooling

Scroll down to learn more!


US homeschooling statistics

The reasons for homeschooling vary, however some drivers include:

  • Covid-19
  • The need to provide consistent education for children who move frequently (such as military families)
  • Simply disagreeing with the educational philosophy of the public or private schools available in the area
  • Children with high-risk or multiple allergies
  • The desire to incorporate religious or cultural views into a child’s education

According to the NCES, safety and the school environment are also major motivators, with the vast majority of homeschooling families reporting this as a key factor in their decision.

In terms of results, homeschooled students typically score above average on academic achievement tests, including the SAT and ACT, which may also factor into the decision. Students are also more likely to attend and be successful in college.

This might make you wonder if you should homeschool. Well, the answer is, maybe. 


Is homeschooling right for your family?

When you first hear about it, homeschooling can sound idyllic. Saying goodby to the morning hustle of “put your shoes on!” in favor of cozy mornings spent snuggling together with a good book.

Before deciding whether or not homeschooling is for you, it’s important to think through the different facets and to really consider whether it’s a good fit for you, your child, and your family.


Is homeschooling right for you as a parent?


There are a few questions to ask yourself as a parent before embarking on the homeschool journey.

  • Do you have the time to take on the role as lead educator for your child?
  • Do you like being home a lot or would you go stir crazy?
  • Do you have a career that allows you the flexibility to homeschool (or a career that you wouldn’t mind giving up)?
  • If you have multiple children, how would you divide your focus between them?    
  • Do you have a space in your home that would make a good learning environment?  


Is homeschooling right for your child?


  • If your child is currently in school, do they like it and how would they feel about being homeschooled instead?
  • How social and extroverted is your child?
  • Do they thrive with a lot of outside interaction, or do they do better in small groups or just with you?

What homeschooling resources are available?


If you think you and your child would thrive with homeschooling, start to look into the resources available in your area.

Are there any homeschool coops close by? These are becoming increasingly common and often offer subjects like science or computer skills to supplement home learning.

Are there social opportunities like a soccer team or scouts that you could enroll your child in?


What are your family goals?


Thinking through your family goals is an important part of any big decision, and definitely plays a role in homeschooling choices.

If you’re considering private school versus homeschool, budget and finances might be a major consideration.

Do you have travel goals as a family or wish to live abroad for a year? Homeschool allows unparalleled flexibility, which is a major reason many families choose this path.


Homeschool curriculum options

If you’ve decided that homeschool is indeed something you want to pursue, you can move on to the fun part of choosing a curriculum.

Close your eyes and imagine what an ideal homeschooling day would look like for you. Are you envisioning sitting in a home classroom teaching your kids from a workbook? Are you picturing hiking through the woods together, stopping to read nature poems along the way? Both are legitimate choices and fortunately, there are a variety of curriculums to meet your individual family goals.

Here are a few of the more popular choices:


Traditional Homeschool


Also called “school at home,” traditional homeschool uses the same type of curriculum as public and traditional private schools, simply in a home setting.

Some families use online classes while others teach the subjects themselves.

This method works well for families who want their children to learn the same things as their peers, but does not suit families who want flexibility or more experiential learning.


Classical Method


The Classical Method of education emphasizes educational practices used by the great thinkers of ancient Rome and Greece such as Socratic discussions.

Families who use the classical method sometimes incorporate Greek or Latin and also emphasize the “Great Books,” or great works of literature.

Academically rigorous and quite structured, the Classical method fits families who favor teacher-led over child-led education. It may not be best for families who want more flexibility and experiential learning.


Charlotte Mason


The Charlotte Mason method is based on the idea that we should educate the whole child and expose them to great works of art and literature, rather than encouraging memorization of facts.

There is an emphasis on character, good habits, and learning through story telling.

Charlotte Mason might be a good fit if you value the arts and literature and if you want to be able to simply purchase a curriculum.

This method is traditionally Christian-based and many of the materials include Bible stories which may not be a good fit for some families. There is also less of an emphasis on math than in some other curriculum.




Montessori is a method of education that generally relies on mixed-age groups of children, but you can certainly apply the child-led hands-on learning concepts in a homeschool setting.

Montessori homeschool families often have a classroom area with shelves of Montessori materials, which can be purchased or created.

The parent chooses materials for math, language, science, sensorial learning, and practical life skills and places them on the shelf. The parent gives the child a lesson on any new materials and then the child is free to choose what to work on each day.

This method is great for families who value hands-on learning, child-led education, and independence. It might be difficult for parents who struggle with relinquishing control as it does take some serious trust in a child’s innate curiosity and desire to learn to allow them to choose what to practice each day. 




Based on the teachings of John Holt, Unschooling is not so much a method as it is a rejection of traditional education methods. It’s generally highly experiential and often unstructured and a child’s education is determined based on their interests, rather than a set curriculum or set of standards.

Each unschooling day will look different. For example, a child might wake up and go for a nature walk, followed by a cooking project, followed by reading a book. A different child might play video games and then try to figure out a new computer programming language. The idea is to trust the child with their own education and offer resources along the way.

Unschooling works well for families who want a highly flexible and individualistic approach to educating their children and who value lots of real-world experience.  

It does not work as well for families who need more structure.


Hybrid Homeschooling


One method that is newer but rapidly growing in popularity is a hybrid model where students attend a sort of part-time school and are homeschooled the rest of the time.  

They might go to school two days a week or only in the mornings.  They might have private tutoring for certain subjects and be taught by their parents the rest of the time.

This model is perfect for families who want to be in charge of their kids’ education, but still want them to have the classic school experience with their peers.  It also works well for families where a parent works part-time and wants to homeschool the part-time.

Seeing all of these methods can seem overwhelming. In reality, many families don’t choose any particular methodology. Instead, they piece together what they like from different curricula and pair this with real world experiences and extracurricular activities to suit their child. It’s also important to remember that deciding to homeschool doesn’t have to be forever! It is a big choice, but certainly not an irrevocable one if you decide that it’s not right for your tot.

If you’re interested in finding out more, the following resources are available:


My top 10 educational toys for homeschooling

At The Tot, we never use or recommend anything that hasn’t passed The Tot Test. This means we’ve looked deep into third-party testing, examined ingredients lists and asked in-depth questions about a product’s composition to ensure it doesn’t contain any of the ingredients we avoid.

When it comes to toys for our children, we like to steer clear of things like PVC, BPA + BPS, Phthalates, Formaldehyde and heavy metals like lead. All known to cause both short and longterm health problems, children are particularly at risk due to their developing systems and tendency to explore things with their mouths!

The below toys have been chosen because they pass The Tot Test as well as offer versatility, durability and longevity.


Franklin + Emily Desk Set


Zephyrs Nest Learn Play Tray Bundle


Made in the USA and designed for kids ages 3 to 9, the Franklin + Emily Desk Set is the epitome of modern & minimalist homeschooling. It doesn’t matter if your child is practicing writing or working on a craft, you can rest easy knowing it is low-VOC and free of harmful materials.


Franklin + Emily Desk Set


Franklin + Emily Desk Set







Plum Discovery Mud Pie Kitchen


Plum Discovery Mud Pie Kitchen


Outdoor sensory play is important for children to connect with nature, experiment with different textures and hone their hand-eye coordination. From a reusable painting screen to a brushed steel basin, I absolutely love the versatility of the Plum Discovery Mud Pie Kitchen.

Plum Discovery Mud Pie Kitchen


Plum Discovery Mud Pie Kitchen






Explore Nook Wooden Waterways – Starter Family Set


Wooden Water Ways – Starter Family Set


Another activity I love is the Explore Nook Waterways family starter set. Fun to play with independently or with friends, it helps demonstrate cause and effect while promoting problem-solving. A fantastic STEM toy!


Wooden Water Ways – Starter Family Set


Explore Nook Wooden Waterways – Family Starter Set







Guidecraft Magna Tablet Deluxe

Guidecraft Magna Tablet Deluxe


Designed with a sturdy FSC-certified beech wood frame, the Guidecraft Magna Tab Deluxe Set includes 10 double-sided Design Cards with suggested patterns that encourage kids to follow directions while honing their hand-eye coordination and fine motor skills.

Guidecraft Magna Tablet Deluxe


Guidecraft Magna Tablet Deluxe






by ASTRUP Educational Clock


Trying to help your child learn how to tell them time? The Educational Clock from by ASTRUP is great for teaching both 12 and 24-hour time.


by Astrup Educational Clock


by ASTRUP Educational Clock






Janod Toys Bodymagnet in 12 Languages


Consisting of 4 body maps, 76 magnetic pieces and 24 multi-language cards, the Janod Toys Bodymagnet activity is a fun way to learn about anatomy and physiology while also learning new languages like French, German, Dutch, Spanish, Catalan, Basque, Italian, Russian, Danish, Japanese, and Chinese.

Janod Toys Bodymagnet in 12 Languages


Janod Toys Bodymagnet in 12 Languages






Q Toys Natural Counting Board


Designed with pre-schoolers in mind, the Q Toys Natural Counting Board is fantastic for teaching numbers, learning the names of colors and honing find motor skills! While it’s fun to use it in a traditional sense, the possibilities for play with this simple toy are endless.


Q Toys Natural Counting Board

Q Toys Natural Counting Board






Zephyr’s Nest Play & Learn Tray Bundle


Zephyrs Nest Alphabet Tracing Board


Consisting of double sided upper and lowercase alphabet tiles, counting coins 1-10, a double sided tracing board as well as a wipe clean Perspex screen, the Zephyr’s Nest Play & Learn Tray Bundle have your early numeracy and literacy lessons sorted!


Zephyrs Nest Play & Learn Tray


Zephyr’s Nest Play & Learn Tray Bundle







Kid Made Modern Arts & Crafts Library


Arts and crafts is an incredibly important element when it comes to fostering your child’s creativity and honing their fine motor skills. I love the Arts and Crafts Library from Kid Made Modern because it contains over 1000 pieces and is free of harmful materials.

Kid Made Modern Arts and Crafts Library


Kid Made Modern Arts and Crafts Library






Habbi Habbi Magic Reading Wand & Bilingual Books


Young girl using Habbi Habbi Reading Wand


Perfect for kids ages 3 to 10, Habbi Habbi Bilingual Books & Magic Reading Wand do more than just teach your child a second language like Spanish or Chinese! They promote empathy, self-care and will inspire your children to dream BIG!

Habbi Habbi Starter Set - Spanish


Habbi Habbi Starter Set – Spanish





Habbi Habbi Starter Set - Chinese


Habbi Habbi Starter Set – Chinese






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