Gifts & Toys for 4 Year Olds – Tot Gift Guide

Four-year-olds are learning how to express their emotions and interact with others – and they gain a lot of new skills and knowledge through play! These wonderful gift ideas will delight them and support their development at the same time.

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Remember when your two-year-old was constantly having temper tantrums and you couldn’t wait for them to turn three? But then you quickly realized that three-year-old meltdowns are even worse? Sigh.

Well, here’s some good news: four-year-olds are finally learning to regulate and express their emotions, so those outbursts should start to become less frequent.

 

Child Development at 4 Years Old

They now have several tools in their arsenal to express how they’re feeling: words, noises and gestures, as well as creative pursuits such as coloring, painting, crafts, building blocks and construction toys.

Four-year-olds also love to sing, dance, dress up and act out make-believe scenarios on their own or with their friends. With imaginary play being as important as ever, toys and games that encourage it make excellent gifts.

Children at this age start to become more aware of their own gender and gender roles. Girls might like to play “Moms and Babies” while boys play “Pirates”. You may worry that these games are gender-stereotypical, but it’s a natural part of development. And you’ll probably notice that both genders play roles such as “Doctor” and “Teacher”!

Let’s not forget the best playthings of all: books. Reading with your four-year-old is a fantastic way to develop their imagination, love of reading and literacy skills before they start school.

 

Best Toys and Gifts for 4 Year Olds

Whether you’re shopping for a Christmas gift or a birthday present for a 4 year old, here are some of our gift recommendations for playtime: 

  • Non-toxic play dough
  • Personalized tea set
  • Magnetic building set
  • Pedal bike
  • Role play sets
  • Dress up clothing
  • Dollhouse
  • Play & learn set
  • Books
  • Acoustic mini guitar
  • Color-in PJs
  • Arts & crafts supplies
  • Wooden building bricks
  • Gardening kit
  • Wooden train set
  • Wooden notch blocks
  • Backpack
  • Sidewalk chalk
  • The Tot Stocking Stuffer Gift Set
  • The Tot Birthday Set

Scroll down to see the options we’ve pulled for each of these gift ideas and shop below!

 

 

Land of Dough Non-Toxic Play Dough

 

Made with rich natural vegetable dyes and biodegradable glitter, Land of Dough’s eco-friendly and non-toxic dough cups are just the thing kids need to have a fun and safe sensory experience.

Land of Dough Over the Rainbow Luxe Cup

 

Land of Dough Over The Rainbow Luxe Cup

 

$14.99

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Land of Dough Bacon and Eggs Luxe Cup

 

Land of Dough Bacon & Eggs Luxe Cup

 

$14.99

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Land of Dough Planet Earth Luxe Cup

 

Land of Dough Planet Earth Luxe Cup

 

$14.99

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Caroline & Co. The Bella Personalized Tea Set

 

Handmade and hand painted in the USA, the Caroline & Co. The Bella Tea Set will be extra special when you add someone’s name! Perfect for imaginative play, it’s something that even your grandchildren will play with.

Caroline & Co The Bella Tea Set FW19

 

Caroline & Co. The Bella Personalized Tea Set

 

$160

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Ambosstoys Primo Ride on Toy

 

The Ambosstoys PRIMO Ride On Toy is the ultimate vehicle for kids. It is a combination of a classic Italian design, with fine handmade craftsmanship to create a timeless ride on scooter for adventurous kids!

 

Ambosstoys Primo Ride On in Mint

Ambosstoys Primo Ride on Toy

 

$199

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Small Foot Compact Nordic Workbench

 

Raising a Litte-Fix-It? Then they need the Small Foot Compact Nordic Workbench. Complete with a wrench, saw, vice and hammer, it’s wonderful for encouraging hand-eye coordination.

 

Small Foot Compact Nordic Workbench

 

Small Foot Compact Nordic Workbench

 

$65.99

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Clixo Rainbow Pack – 42 Pieces

Clixo Rainbow Pack

The Clixo Rainbow Pack uses magnets to let kids create whatever they can imagine! From headbands to planes to houses, it’s a wonderful toy for open-ended play and fine motor skill development.

 

Clixo Rainbow Pack

 

Clixo Rainbow Pack – 42 Pieces

 

$59.99

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Little Tokyobike

 

When it comes to first bikes, your tot will love zooming around on a Little Tokyobike. Available in a range of colors, it comes with removable training wheels.

 

Tokyobike Little Tokyobike Mustard

 

Little Tokyobike Pedal Bike

 

$315

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Make Me Iconic Role Play Sets

 

One of the most important types of play a child can do is imaginative role play. Not only fun, it helps them expand their vocabularies, learn important life skills and develop a sense of self. That’s why we can’t get enough of these adorable wooden sets from Make Me Iconic!

 

Make Me Iconic Dentist Kit

 

Make Me Iconic Dentist Kit

 

$64.99

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Make Me Iconic Doctor Kit

 

Make Me Iconic Doctor Kit

 

$64.99

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Make Me Iconic Surgeon/Pharmacist Kit

Make Me Iconic Surgeon/Pharmacist Kit

 

$64.99

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Make Me Iconic Tea Set Extension

 

Make Me Iconic Tea Set Extension Kit

 

$54.99

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Make Me Iconic Beauty Kit

Make Me Iconic Beauty Kit

 

$69.99

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Aeromax Costumes

 

Of course you can’t really role play without a costume! Available in sizes for babies, toddlers and big kids, you’ll love these costumes from Aeromax.

 

Aeromax Junior Astronaut Suit

 

Aeromax Baby/Toddler/Big Kid Jr Astronaut Suit

 

Ranging from $29.95 to $52.95

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Aeromax Toddler/Big Kid Jr. Police Officer Suit with Cap & Belt

Aeromax Toddler/Big Kid Jr Police Officer Suit

 

$49.95

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Tender Leaf Toys Cottontail Cottage

 

Not only will this beautiful dollhouse by Tender Leaf Toys inspire hours of imaginative play, it’s made from renewable rubber wood and is recyclable.

Tender Leaf Cotton Tail Cottage

 

Tender Leaf Toys Cottontail Cottage

 

$150

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The Tot Play & Learn Set 4 – 5 Years

 

Designed by an Early Learning Educator to help four year olds prepare for a more formal education, The Tot Play & Learn Set features a booklet of fun and engaging activities as well as six toys that can be played with in a variety of ways.

 

 

The Tot Play & Learn Set 4- 5 years

 

The Tot Play & Learn Set 4 – 5 Years

 

$150

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Tiny Bee Gift Co. Books

 

Nothing is more important than reading to (and with) your child! This holiday season, bedtime stories will be extra special when you read a book from Tiny Bee Gift Co. For each Tiny Bee book purchased from The Tot, Tiny Bee donates a second book to Baby2Baby, who provide low-income children with the basic necessities (including books!) that every child deserves.

 

Tiny Bee The Crayon Christmas Book

 

Tiny Bee Gift Co. The Crayons’ Christmas

 

$30

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Tiny Bee Gift Co Happy Hanukkah, Curious George

 

Tiny Bee Gift Co. Happy Hanukkah, Curious George

 

$25

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Loog Guitars Mini Guitar

 

Loog Guitars Flash Cards

 

It doesn’t matter if your tot is into rock and roll or a little bit more country, the Loog Guitars Mini Guitar will show them the all the fundamentals they need to start playing!

 

Loog Red Acoustic Guitar

Loog Guitars Mini Guitar

 

$79

Available in more colors

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Hape Happy Grand Piano

 

It’s never too early to introduce your children to musical play. Made with little hands in mind, the Hape Happy Grand Piano is the perfect beginning instrument for little musicians still working on their dexterity and hand-eye coordination.

 

Hape Happy Grand Piano

 

Hape Happy Grand Piano

 

$149.99

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Selfie Clothing Co. Color-In PJ Sets

 

Not only are Selfie Clothing Co’s Color-In PJs super soft and cozy, they’re also interactive!! With a variety of prints available, like Christmas and Hanukkah, kids get to be part of the design by coloring them in!

 

Selfie Clothing Co Christmas

 

Selfie Clothing Co. Color-In PJ Set – Christmas

 

$38

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Selfie Clothing Co Hanukkah Pj Set

Selfie Clothing Co. Color-In PJ Set – Hanukkah

 

$38

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Kid Made Modern Arts & Crafts Library

 

The Kid Made Modern Arts + Crafts Library has over 1,000 pieces to create your own craft adventure. It comes packaged in a reusable box to store supplies when not in use so the only thing you need to add is your imagination.

Kid Made Modern Arts & Crafts Library

Kid Made Modern Arts & Crafts Library

 

$39.99

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Once Kids Eco Bricks

Once Kids Eco Bricks 145 Piece

Once Kids Eco Bricks are the eco-friendly LEGO alternative you’ve been looking for! Compatible with LEGO pieces, Once Kids Eco Bricks come in wood or bamboo and can even be colored!

Once Kids Eco Bricks Bamboo - 250 Piece

 

Once Kids Wooden Eco Bricks – 250 Pieces

 

$110

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Once Kids Eco Bricks 250

 

Once Kids Bamboo Eco Bricks

 

$110

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Gardenuity My First Garden 

 

Four is the perfect age to start working on your tot’s green thumb! Complete with everything your need to plant your own veggie patch, Gardenuity’s My First Garden can be used inside or out!

Gardenuity My First Garden Set

 

Gardenuity My First Garden

 

$98

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Guidecraft Foundation Train Set C

 

Guidecraft Foundation Set A

 

When it comes to wooden train sets, it doesn’t get much more epic than the Guidecraft Foundation Train Set C!

Guidecraft Foundation Set C

Guidecraft Foundation Train Set C

 

$349.95

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Guidecraft Wooden Notch Blocks

 

Guidecraft Notch Blocks

 

Block play just got even cooler thanks to Guidecraft’s Notch Blocks! Fun to play with inside or out, they are wonderful for building problem-solving skills and hand-eye coordination.

 

Guidecraft Notch Blocks

 

Guidecraft Wooden Notch Blocks

 

$449.95

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STATE Bags Backpack

 

It doesn’t matter if you’re gearing up for kindergarten or need a bag to tote toys to your neighbor’s house, STATE Bags backpack are just the thing for the job!

 

STATE Bags The Kane Backpack - Ladybug

 

STATE Bags The Kane Backpack – Ladybug

 

$85

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STATE Bags The Kane Backpack - Camo

 

STATE Bags The Kane Backpack – Camo

 

$95

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Twee Sidewalk Chalk

 

Ready to make a hop scotch course? Want to work on some ‘Welcome Home!’ artwork for the driveway? Twee makes outdoor chalk play extra exciting with their uniquely shaped non-toxic chalk sets.

TWEE Boxed Planets Chalk

 

Twee Mason’s Planets Sidewalk Chalk

 

$39

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Twee pizza shaped Chalk

Twee Cheesy Pizza Sidewalk Chalk

 

$16

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The Tot Stocking Stuffer Gift Sets

 

If you’re looking for stocking stuffers, you’re going to want to know about our stocking stuffer gift sets! Designed with age, interests and price points in mind, there are loads to choose from!

 

Stocking Stuffers Toddler Boy $50

THE TOT STOCKING STUFFER GIFT SET 3 – 5 YEARS

 

$50

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Stocking Stuffer Toddler Girl $50

 

THE TOT STOCKING STUFFER GIFT SET 3 – 5 YEARS

 

$50

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Stocking Stuffers Toddler Boy $100

THE TOT STOCKING STUFFER GIFT SET 3 – 5 YEARS

 

$100

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Stocking Stuffer Toddler Girl $100

THE TOT STOCKING STUFFER GIFT SET 3 – 5 YEARS

 

$100

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Stocking Stuffer Toddler Boy $200

 

THE TOT STOCKING STUFFER GIFT SET 3 – 5 YEARS

 

$200

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Stocking Stuffers Toddler Girl $200

THE TOT STOCKING STUFFER GIFT SET 3 – 5 YEARS

 

$200

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The Tot Birthday Gift Set

 

Birthday gift shopping is a breeze with our birthday gift sets! Featuring things like a dinosaur puzzle and sidewalk chalk, they’re exactly what every four year old will love!

 

The Tot Birthday Gift Set - Dinosaur

 

The Tot Dinosaur Birthday Gift Set 3 – 5 years

 

$50

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The Tot Birthday Gift Set - Unicorn

 

The Tot Unicorn Birthday Gift Set 3 – 5 Years

 

$50

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The Tot Birthday Gift Set - Fairy Princess

 

The Tot Fairy Princess Birthday Gift Set 3 – 5 Years

 

$50

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