Gifts & Toys for 4 Year Olds – Tot Gift Guide

Four-year-olds are learning how to express their emotions and interact with others – and they gain a lot of new skills and knowledge through play! These wonderful gift ideas will delight them and support their development at the same time.

Little girl playing vet with a plush toy

Remember when your two-year-old was constantly having temper tantrums and you couldn’t wait for them to turn three? But then you quickly realized that three-year-old meltdowns are even worse? Sigh. Well, here’s some good news: four-year-olds are finally learning to regulate and express their emotions, so those outbursts should start to become less frequent.


Child Development at 4 Years Old


They now have several tools in their arsenal to express how they’re feeling: words, noises and gestures, as well as creative pursuits such as coloring, painting, crafts, building blocks and construction toys.

Four-year-olds also love to sing, dance, dress up and act out make-believe scenarios on their own or with their friends. With imaginary play being as important as ever, toys and games that encourage it make excellent gifts.

Children at this age start to become more aware of their own gender and gender roles. Girls might like to play “Moms and Babies” while boys play “Pirates”. You may worry that these games are gender-stereotypical, but it’s a natural part of development. And you’ll probably notice that both genders play roles such as “Doctor” and “Teacher”!

Let’s not forget the best playthings of all: books. Reading with your four-year-old is a fantastic way to develop their imagination, love of reading and literacy skills before they start school.


Best Toys and Gifts for 4 Year Olds


Whether you’re shopping for a Christmas gift or a birthday present for a 2-year-old, here are some of our gift recommendations for playtime: 

  • Doll house
  • Coloring calendar
  • Wooden toy cars
  • Educational books
  • Apron & wooden utensils
  • Play fridge
  • Outdoor swing
  • Toy piano
  • Balance bike
  • Dentist set
  • Castle play set
  • Volcano crystal kit
  • Christmas book
  • Arts & Crafts supplies
  • Pajamas
  • Vet play set


Scroll down to see the options we’ve pulled for each of these gift ideas and shop below!


Doll House


Not only will this beautiful town-style doll house by Tender Leaf Toys inspire hours of imaginative play, it’s made from renewable rubber wood and is recyclable.

Tender Leaf Foxtail Doll House Villa


Tender Leaf Foxtail Doll House Villa






Color-in Christmas Calendar


Instead of overloading on chocolate, try a crafty countdown to Christmas this year! This Selfie Clothing Co set includes a large fabric advent calendar, eight UV fabric pens and a practice sheet.

Color-in Christmas Calendar


Selfie Clothing Co Color-in Christmas Calendar






Wooden Toy Cars


Tender Leaf Toys’ Car Transporter set features four wooden cars, a transporter and a retractable arm to load the cars. It fosters imagination and develops fine motor skills.

Little Mashers Stamp It! Kit in Shapes



Tender Leaf Car Transporter






A Kid’s Feel Better Book


A Feel Better Book for Little Worriers assures kids that having some worries is normal. Through fun rhymes and illustrations, it provides kids the tools they need to help manage their emotions.

B Sisters Little Worriers Book


A Feel Better Book For Little Worriers






Kid’s Apron + Baking Utensils


Encourage a love of cooking from an early age with Odette Williams’ 100% cotton apron and wooden cooking set that includes a rolling pin, a spoon and a spatula.



Odette William Kid’s Apron + Baking Utensils Set






Wooden Play Fridge


Milton & Goose’s stunning heirloom-quality wooden fridge will encourage imaginative play and boost your child’s gross motor skills and vocabulary.


Milton & Goose Wooden Play Fridge in Grey

Milton & Goose Wooden Play Fridge in White


Milton & Goose Fridge






Outdoor Wooden Swing


Made of hard maple, the Adventure Parks Classic Swing is wonderful for promoting active play. While it’s beneficial for encouraging the development of coordination, it can also be a calming activity.


Adventure Parks Classic Swing

Adventure Parks Classic Swing







Kids Toy Piano


It’s never too early to introduce your children to musical play. Made with little hands in mind, the Hape Happy Grand Piano is the perfect beginning instrument for little musicians still working on their dexterity and hand-eye coordination.

Hape Happy Grand Piano

Hape Happy Grand Piano







Balance Bike


The First Go! is a lightweight balance bike that teaches young children how to balance and steer while scooting along with their feet.


Banwood Bike Balance Bicycle in Green


Banwood Bikes First Go! Balance Bike



Available in more colors




Toy Dentist Set


The PlanToys dentist set teaches children at a young age to understand the importance of tooth care, while encouraging role play and hand-eye coordination. It includes 4 basic dental tools: 1 toothbrush, 1 set of teeth with 3 spare teeth and 1 doctor case.


Plan Toys Dentist Set


PlanToys Dentist Set






Renewable Rubber Wood Toy Castle


Let your child’s imagination run wild (and watch their language skills develop!) with Tender Leaf Toys’ 100-piece Royal Castle set made from renewable rubber wood.


Tender Leaf Toys Royal Castle







Kids Volcano Crystal Growing Kit


Watch your child’s eyes widen in wonder as the red and white crystals start to appear on Copernicus’ paper volcano, mimicking the smoke and lava produced by an eruption.


Copernicus Volcano Crystal Growing Kit


Copernicus Volcano Crystal Growing Kit







Kids Christmas Book


Tiny Bee Gift Co’s The Night Before Christmas introduces children to the classic Christmas tale that’s been loved for generations. The beautiful book arrives in a cotton drawstring bag.


The Night Before Christmas


The Night Before Christmas Book






Arts & Crafts Supplies


The Kid Made Modern Arts + Crafts Library has over 1,000 pieces to create your own craft adventure. It comes packaged in a reusable box to store supplies when not in use so the only thing you need to add is your imagination.

Kid Made Modern Arts & Crafts Library

Kid Made Modern Arts & Crafts Library






Pima Cotton PJ Set


Exclusive to The Tot, the super soft Hart + Land Skiers two-piece pajama set will keep little ones cozy all night. With a long sleeve top and cuffed pant, they’re perfect for morning cuddles. Great for Christmas!



HART + LAND Pajama Set - Skiers


HART + LAND Pima Cotton Pajama Set – Skiers







Toy Vet Set


Children will love playing doctor with the PlanToys Vet Set. The set encourages children to be empathetic and learn how to treat animals when they need a check-up or medical attention.


PlanToys Vet Set


PlanToys Vet Set






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